It’s that time of year again. The time for jotting down new promises for the New Year — some of which you plan to keep, and others, well, not so much. Inevitably what always matters most is that you give ‘em a try, right? When you make these resolutions you tie them to things like your career, your growth, and your goals – but what about your sex life? Could yours use a makeover? Great sex does have lots of benefits – think, better health and more happiness. Don’t you want a little more of that in 2012? Yeah, we thought so. Here are 10 ways to get there. Be sure they make your list.
1. I Will Make the Time
Make sex a top priority in your relationship. Even when your schedule seems it won’t allow it — find the time. It will make facing the work week and the other stressors in your life that much easier.
2. I Will Go There
Act out his wildest fantasy, and yours too. It will make for many nights of new experiences in the bedroom.
3. I Will Not Make Excuses
I forgot to shave. I have a slight headache. It’s been a long day. I’m so tired. Do these excuses sound familiar? Although they may be valid, that doesn’t mean a little love-making can’t be the cure. Don’t hold back in 2012.
4. I Will Set the Stage for Love
Set the mood more often. Here’s a handy checklist to have around: Candles, body oil, pleasure toys, and a sultry playlist.
5. I Will Pay Him Compliments
If he rocks your world, be sure he knows that in 2012. Tell him what he does best, why you love your time between the sheets with him, and what you can’t wait to do with him again. He’ll be all ears, trust us.
6. I Will Show Off My Sexy Side
Buy sexy lingerie, or greet him in the nude when he gets home. You’re a beautiful, sexy woman. Embrace it.
7. I Will Be Spontaneous
Give him tender kisses whenever the mood strikes. He’ll love your spontaneity.
8. I Will Let Loose
Up the excitement factor in your sex life by making “play dates” with your lover. Sex is meant to be fun and rewarding. Have a naughty food fight in the kitchen, give each other pet names, or to really switch it up, have sex somewhere in your home you never have before.
9. I Will Try Something New
You know that thing you’ve always wanted to try, but never have? It’s time to give it a go in 2012. What do you have to lose?
10. I Will Speak Up
Speak up about what you want. He can’t make your fantasies come true if he doesn’t know what they are.
In 2012, make New Years Resolutions that not only you can keep but want to keep!
